HAPPINESS MEANS DIFFERENT THINGS TO DIFFERENT PEOPLE..!
For many years I made quite a good living as a globe-trotting blackjack player – certainly not the “proper job” my mother wanted for me, but a “career” which gave me the opportunity to travel widely whilst winning (and occasionally losing) some money along the way. I wasn’t as successful in this “career” as some of my associates, partly because I enjoyed the travelling more than the money since, in the back of my mind, I was searching for that “perfect place” to live – an island ideally. The Maldives – where I “broke the bank” (admittedly a very modest bank) at the only casino there – is what many people think of as “a paradise”, but did not qualify for me.
And that is the PARADOX OF PARADISE because, as the song goes, “Happiness is – different things to different people”..!
Instead of searching the world for that elusive island paradise, perhaps it would be easier to create our own custom-built “island” utopias..?

The idea of Utopia is routinely sneered at, being regarded as a foolish and unattainable dream of day-dreamers..

Thomas More’s “Utopia” (1516), or “perfect place”, was the first book to describe in detail an ideal society. But his was a caste-obsessed vision where every man must know his place, his clothing must inform of his position in society, and with mandatory death penalties for a whole range of what today would be trivial offences. More’s idea of Utopia is viewed with horror today, but my own ideas of what would constitute a PERFECT PLACE might also be viewed with horror by most people. For example, my advocation that mandatory “community service” be written into the charter, and be made a condition of citizenship. This, and other ideas of mine, might only be shared by a minority, but a small % of a large number is still a large number.
